Thursday, September 30, 2010

Charity Never Faileth


In Relief Society a couple of weeks ago we were discussing how blessed we are to not only have a living prophet, but to hear from him monthly! Every month he gives counsel to help us become a better people and draw nearer to our Father in Heaven. But if asked what our prophet had to say this month, would we know? I probably wouldn't. So I challenged my self to monthly write in my journal what the prophet has counseled, and to post here also for my friend and family.
This month I was lucky enough to attend the annual Relief Society Broadcast with my mom. As I listened to the wonderful talks and music, I couldn't help but want to be a better person, like our dear President Hinckley said, "Try a little harder, be a little kinder".
This month President Thomas S. Monson’s counsel was on Charity. Here’s what he had to say:

" I consider charity—or “the pure love of Christ”—to be the opposite of criticism and judging. In speaking of charity, I do not at this moment have in mind the relief of the suffering through the giving of our substance. That, of course, is necessary and proper. Tonight, however, I have in mind the charity that manifests itself when we are tolerant of others and lenient toward their actions, the kind of charity that forgives, the kind of charity that is patient.
I have in mind the charity that impels us to be sympathetic, compassionate, and merciful, not only in times of sickness and affliction and distress but also in times of weakness or error on the part of others.
There is a serious need for the charity that gives attention to those who are unnoticed, hope to those who are discouraged, aid to those who are afflicted. True charity is love in action. The need for charity is everywhere.
Needed is the charity which refuses to find satisfaction in hearing or in repeating the reports of misfortunes that come to others, unless by so doing, the unfortunate one may be benefited. The American educator and politician Horace Mann once said, “To pity distress is but human; to relieve it is godlike.”
Charity is having patience with someone who has let us down. It is resisting the impulse to become offended easily. It is accepting weaknesses and shortcomings. It is accepting people as they truly are. It is looking beyond physical appearances to attributes that will not dim through time. It is resisting the impulse to categorize others.
Charity, that pure love of Christ, is manifest when a group of young women from a singles ward travels hundreds of miles to attend the funeral services for the mother of one of their Relief Society sisters. Charity is shown when devoted visiting teachers return month after month, year after year to the same uninterested, somewhat critical sister. It is evident when an elderly widow is remembered and taken to ward functions and to Relief Society activities. It is felt when the sister sitting alone in Relief Society receives the invitation, “Come—sit by us.”
In a hundred small ways, all of you wear the mantle of charity. Life is perfect for none of us. Rather than being judgmental and critical of each other, may we have the pure love of Christ for our fellow travelers in this journey through life. May we recognize that each one is doing her best to deal with the challenges which come her way, and may we strive to do our best to help out.
Charity has been defined as “the highest, noblest, strongest kind of love,” the “pure love of Christ . . . ; and whoso is found possessed of it at the last day, it shall be well with [her].”
“Charity never faileth.” May this long-enduring Relief Society motto, this timeless truth, guide you in everything you do. May it permeate your very souls and find expression in all your thoughts and actions.
I express my love to you, my sisters, and pray that heaven’s blessings may ever be yours. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen."
(Charity Never Faileth, President Thomas S. Monson. September 25,2010)

I hope that I can take this counsel to heart. I pray that I can show charity toward others, and grow closer to my Heavenly Father.When I judge, I have no time to love. I am so gratful for the oppurtunities that I have to hear from our sweet prophet, and his wise counslers. I am so grateful for the oppurtunity that Craig and I have to attend the temple often. I'm gratful that I know that my family can be together forever, and that I have the help of our Savior. I am so blessed. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.